[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.daedo.cz\/jaci-jsou-muzi-kteri-vyrustali-bez-otcovske-lasky-a-pozornosti\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.daedo.cz\/jaci-jsou-muzi-kteri-vyrustali-bez-otcovske-lasky-a-pozornosti\/","headline":"Jac\u00ed jsou mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed vyr\u016fstali bez otcovsk\u00e9 l\u00e1sky a pozornosti?","name":"Jac\u00ed jsou mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed vyr\u016fstali bez otcovsk\u00e9 l\u00e1sky a pozornosti?","description":"Existuj\u00ed r\u016fzn\u00e9 typy lid\u00ed. To, jac\u00ed jsme, je z velk\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti podm\u00edn\u011bno na\u0161imi ko\u0159eny. Ne tak zcela ve smyslu rodokmenu, n\u00fdbr\u017e z\u00e1kladn\u00edmi stavebn\u00edmi kameny, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1m d\u00e1vaj\u00ed rodi\u010de do v\u00ednku b\u011bhem po\u010d\u00e1te\u010dn\u00edch n\u011bkolika let na\u0161eho \u017eivota. Krom\u011b ran\u00e9ho d\u011btstv\u00ed do 6 let v\u011bku, kdy jsou v\u0161echny d\u011bti extr\u00e9mn\u011b citliv\u00e9 na vlivy prost\u0159ed\u00ed okolo nich, je stejn\u011b […]","datePublished":"2023-05-06","dateModified":"2023-05-06","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.daedo.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.daedo.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4faace62981be50719be6a25151192978e6d585737a520836dcb98934de3bb45?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4faace62981be50719be6a25151192978e6d585737a520836dcb98934de3bb45?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"daedo.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.daedo.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a340702_w2697_t1553601446.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.daedo.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a340702_w2697_t1553601446.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.daedo.cz\/jaci-jsou-muzi-kteri-vyrustali-bez-otcovske-lasky-a-pozornosti\/","about":["Mu\u017ei\r"],"wordCount":637,"articleBody":"Existuj\u00ed r\u016fzn\u00e9 typy lid\u00ed. To, jac\u00ed jsme, je z velk\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti podm\u00edn\u011bno na\u0161imi ko\u0159eny. Ne tak zcela ve smyslu rodokmenu, n\u00fdbr\u017e z\u00e1kladn\u00edmi stavebn\u00edmi kameny, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1m d\u00e1vaj\u00ed rodi\u010de do v\u00ednku b\u011bhem po\u010d\u00e1te\u010dn\u00edch n\u011bkolika let na\u0161eho \u017eivota. Krom\u011b ran\u00e9ho d\u011btstv\u00ed do 6 let v\u011bku, kdy jsou v\u0161echny d\u011bti extr\u00e9mn\u011b citliv\u00e9 na vlivy prost\u0159ed\u00ed okolo nich, je stejn\u011b tak d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 i obdob\u00ed dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed (puberta a adolescence). Shr\u0148me to, b\u011bhem cel\u00e9ho d\u011btstv\u00ed p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1me (v ide\u00e1ln\u00edm p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b) l\u00e1sku, pozornost a v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 prvky na\u0161ich rodi\u010d\u016f a na z\u00e1klad\u011b nich si tvo\u0159\u00edme podstatn\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed vzorce, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1me cht\u011b necht\u011b v sob\u011b po zbytek \u017eivota.\tAbsence jednoho z rodi\u010d\u016f s sebou logicky p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed drastick\u00e9 n\u00e1sledky. Nemluv\u00edme-li o fyzick\u00e9 nep\u0159\u00edtomnosti, v dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b m\u00e1 mnoho z n\u00e1s zku\u0161enost s t\u00edm, kdy my sami nebo n\u011bkdo z na\u0161eho okol\u00ed sice m\u00e1 oba rodi\u010de, av\u0161ak jeden z nich nefunguje (a ani nefungoval) ve sv\u00e9 roli tak, aby dostate\u010dn\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem naplnil pot\u0159eby d\u011btstv\u00ed a dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed v \u017eivot\u011b sv\u00e9ho potomka.\tZam\u011b\u0159\u00edme-li se nyn\u00ed na nedostate\u010dnou p\u0159\u00edtomnost otce ve smyslu otcovsk\u00e9 role u sv\u00e9ho syna, dojdeme k z\u00e1v\u011bru, \u017ee takov\u00fdch jedinc\u016f mo\u017en\u00e1 zn\u00e1me mnoho. Role otce prod\u011blala v pr\u016fb\u011bhu let mnoho zm\u011bn v obecn\u00e9m pojet\u00ed, a to vede k situaci dne\u0161ka, kdy je mnoho mu\u017e\u016f zmaten\u00fdch z toho, co se od nich vlastn\u011b \u010dek\u00e1. Bu\u010f nejsou v r\u00e1mci rodiny role matka vs. otec dostate\u010dn\u011b namodelovan\u00e9 a ohrani\u010den\u00e9, nebo otec s\u00e1m nem\u00e1 dostate\u010dn\u011b napln\u011bn\u00e9 d\u011btsk\u00e9 pot\u0159eby sv\u00e9ho vlastn\u00edho ran\u00e9ho v\u00fdvoje. A takto se bohu\u017eel nespr\u00e1vn\u00e9 vzorce p\u0159en\u00e1\u0161ej\u00ed z generace na generaci.\t\u010c\u00edm se nej\u010dast\u011bji vyzna\u010duj\u00ed mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed ve sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b postr\u00e1dali otce jako takov\u00e9ho?\t1.       Nejasn\u00fd mu\u017esk\u00fd vzor.\tPokud nen\u00ed v rodin\u011b, hledaj\u00ed si jej ji\u017e mal\u00ed chlapci kdekoli jinde a up\u00ednaj\u00ed se na osoby mu\u017esk\u00e9ho pohlav\u00ed ve snaze z\u00edskat od nich l\u00e1sku, pozornost a vzorec chov\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00fd by mohli napodobovat.\t2.       N\u00edzk\u00e9 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed \/ nebo naopak p\u0159ehnan\u011b vysok\u00e9.\tA\u0165 se matka v r\u00e1mci rodiny sna\u017e\u00ed sebev\u00edc, jsou v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 nen\u00ed schopna saturovat dostate\u010dn\u011b. Vznikaj\u00ed zde extr\u00e9mn\u00ed situace v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b budov\u00e1n\u00ed synova sebev\u011bdom\u00ed – bu\u010f je na n\u011bj p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 p\u0159\u00edsn\u00e1 nebo ho naopak stav\u00ed na piedestal, co\u017e ho nev\u011bdomky nau\u010d\u00ed d\u011blat po zbytek \u017eivota.\t3.       Neschopnost vyjad\u0159ovat sv\u00e9 city.\tM\u016f\u017ee se vyskytnout pot\u00ed\u017e s emo\u010dn\u00edmi projevy v\u016f\u010di partnerce, na kter\u00e9 nen\u00ed z domova zvykl\u00fd a nev\u00ed, jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem projevovat l\u00e1sku v\u016f\u010di bli\u017en\u00edm osob\u00e1m – pokud jej jin\u00e1 osoba tyto v\u011bci nenau\u010d\u00ed nam\u00edsto otcovsk\u00e9 postavy.\t\t4.       Komunika\u010dn\u00ed t\u00e1p\u00e1n\u00ed.\t5.       Nejasn\u011b stanoven\u00e9 c\u00edle \/ pl\u00e1ny.\t6.       Neschopnost dotahovat v\u011bci do konce.\t7.       Nekone\u010dn\u00e1 touha po uzn\u00e1n\u00ed od okol\u00ed.\t8.       Zahled\u011bnost do sebe, neschopnost kompromisu nebo operativn\u00edho \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed v\u011bc\u00ed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.7\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Jac\u00ed jsou mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed vyr\u016fstali bez otcovsk\u00e9 l\u00e1sky a pozornosti?","item":"https:\/\/www.daedo.cz\/jaci-jsou-muzi-kteri-vyrustali-bez-otcovske-lasky-a-pozornosti\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]